Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction" delves into the world of interpersonal influence, with a chapter dedicated to a crucial first step: choosing the right target. Greene argues that a well-selected "victim" (Greene's terminology) is key to a successful seduction. But this isn't about manipulation; it's about understanding desires and creating a dynamic of mutual fulfillment.
The Right Fit: Filling a Void
The ideal target, according to Greene, has a void in their life that the seducer can fill. This void could be a craving for excitement, a desire for validation, or a yearning for love. By understanding this need, the seducer can tailor their approach to resonate with the target's deepest desires.
The Allure of the Imperfect
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